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I wish I'd read this book before I got married--the first time. Jul 14, 2009
It may not be possible to think and plan rationally when you are in the initial hormonal flood of romantic love. Considering the divorce rate however, and the immense costs--both financial and emotional-- usually associated with a divorce, if reading this book causes you to think about what you are doing for even a few minutes it is worth the time to buy and read it. The book covers both the emotional and the practical financial aspects of marriage. It can be brutal, funny even, in its frank assessment of the fantasies men and women bring to decision to marry.
Pre-nup? "Forget it," my daughter said, "it would destroy our love with ugly suspicions even before we marry." I tried to explain the difference between romantic love and the legal construct of marriage created by governments and churches to insure the orderly rearing of children without burdening others with the task. She called me an unromantic curmudgeon and didn't speak to me for a considerable period of time, almost until the separation and divorce a year and a half later. Cost her plenty but I bit my tongue. If this book had been available then, I would have given her a copy. I'm sure my bruises and contusions would have healed before I walked her down the aisle.
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Women Should Read This Book Mar 16, 2009
Don't Get Married Unless contains a wealth of important information for men AND women about relationships.
There was so much material in this book, that I had to read it twice. The first time, I was so absorbed that I read it cover to cover in one sitting. The second time, I read it more slowly.
Don't Get Married Unless was primarily written for men, but it also contains valuable information for women. It gives pointers about how to form a meaningful and lasting relationship with the right partner.
We all want a permanent relationship or marriage. None of us want to go through a divorce. Don't Get Married Unless has a lot of helpful tips for both sexes on selecting the right partner to ensure a loving, lasting, lifelong romantic partnership.
I would recommend this book to anyone looking for Mr. or Ms. Right. Kudos to Dr. Freud ! Don't Get Married Unless is a winner !
A phenomenal "real life" book on relationships. Feb 20, 2009
The most thought provoking book that I have ever read.
My initial reaction was that this was a book about the consequences of divorce but as I read on I realized that the early chapters were a set up for the final chapters.
Dr Johan Freud does a brilliant job of evaluating real life situations, and in the end giving you solutions to the tragic cascades discussed in the early part of his book.
Unless you read the whole thing you will not understand that the first half of the book is a set up for the second half, and is preventable.
I have never seen a book that blends the biological understanding of "chemistry" with the psychology of being "In Love". What does being "In Love" really mean? Dr. Freud not only explains why you feel the way you do but how long it will last. By his examples I learned that love can last a lifetime if you do the right things.
This book made me look at relationships in a totally different way. I learned how to select a partner that not only is compatible with me, but also complements my wants and needs in life.
Dr. Freud's formulas for selecting the best partner are rational, innovative and brilliant.
I would love to go to one of his lectures, after all, prevention is the best policy.
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