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Growing Up in Mama's Club: "Revised and Expanded Third Edition"

 
 
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Growing Up in Mama's Club: "Revised and Expanded Third Edition"

"Growing Up in Mama's Club" is a compelling, coming-of-age story about a boy who is a victim of sixteen years of emotional, religious abuse. His day-to-day life and his attempts to conform to a belief system at odds with his intellectual skills are at times both heart-rending and humorous. But his ultimate triumph over religious indoctrination should be inspirational for people of all ages, especially for anyone growing up in an abusive environment. When he was four years of age, during his mother's turbulent five-month conversion process, he thought she was joining a club. Once she became a member, his mama insulated him from an outside world she believed would be destroyed before he reached the age of twenty. While he didn't know it at the time, his childhood was similar in many ways to One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest-forced to live with Nurse Ratchet-type rules and surrounded by a supporting cast of unusual and colorful characters. While most books about cult-like groups are written by theologians or angry ex-members, this book engages the reader with amusing ironies, unique events, and graphic scenes-all presented in a warm, accessible tone. The book also includes interesting information about the non-mainstream beliefs and checkered history of Jehovah's Witnesses, and what it was like, as a child, to be forced to live under "the rule of truth." "Mama's Club" should prompt readers to rethink the influences that underlie their own childhood, encouraging them to better understand that a full life is created not by what happens to us, but by how we make sense of events over which we had no control.

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Product Details:
Author: Richard E. Kelly
Paperback: 268 pages
Publisher: Richard Kelly
Publication Date: May 01, 2008
Language: English
ISBN: 0979509424
Product Width: 137.5 centimeters
Product Height: 212.5 centimeters
Product Weight: 0.76 pounds
Package Length: 8.5 inches
Package Width: 5.5 inches
Package Height: 0.8 inches
Package Weight: 0.85 pounds
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5 of 5 found the following review helpful:

4A Great Read  Apr 21, 2008
By R. Rosenbaum
I picked up this book one night and thought I would "just read a few pages." Well, I could not put it down. Richard Kelly has a gift with words. He has written a fascinating, very sincere, and moving story about his childhood and growing up with a religion that did not fit his idea of what spirituality was about. If you enjoyed "Letter to a Christian Nation" or "The God Delusion" and other books that make us question our beliefs, you will enjoy this book. This easy-to-read, thoughtful, and at times, laugh-out-loud funny, real-life story will make you think about whether your beliefs are your own, or what others want you to believe. I heartily recommend this honest and revealing book.

5 of 5 found the following review helpful:

4An on target portrayal of what it is like being raised a Jehovah's Witness  Sep 27, 2007
By Stan D. Covell
The book holds your interest and is easy to read and those of us who were raised in or affiliated with the Watchtower Society or Jehovah's Witness religion, will surely relate to the stories in the book and the chapters in Richard's life as he grew up as a Jehovah's Witness. His struggles as a youth being raised in the "truth" as Jehovah's Witnesses refer to their religion, are very similar to those of all of us who have been affiliated with the Jehovah's Witness religion. The book is filled with humor as well as sorrow and gives a fair and honest account of Richard's life growing up as a Jehovah's Witness.

A very good read.

Stan Covell

4 of 4 found the following review helpful:

5Honest. Accurate. What it's like to grow up a Jehovah's Witness  Sep 18, 2007
By John A. Hoyle
Richard Kelly has given a very accurate and moving account of his life as a child growing up in a Jehovah's Witness family. His book is more of an autobiography than a critique of any particular religious belief. The time frame of his story begins in the late 1940s and ends in the early 1960s. Unfortunately, as bad as things were at times for young Kelly, things have not changed for the better since then for most Witness children. Every parent who belongs to a fundamentalist or strict religious faith should read this book to understand what their own children might be feeling. Kelly does not spend a lot of time discussing the teachings or practices of the Jehovah's Witnesses. What he does particularly well is to make the reader understand the pressures he felt as he tried to please his mother and to conform to the unyielding guidelines of a belief he did not share. The book is an easy and enjoyable read, but you will at times be shocked and upset when Kelly reveals what his life as a JW child was really like. There are some great "behind the scenes" anecdotes that will make it very hard to put this book down once you start reading it.

4 of 4 found the following review helpful:

5Reads Like a Novel, Informs Like a Scholarly Paper  May 07, 2008
By The Dutch Connection
This well-written story of one man's experience growing up as a Jehovah's Witness reads like a novel while informing like a scholarly paper. The work by this former Bethelite has unusually good descriptions of those involved, which bring the story to life and help the reader become involved in the plot.

The most valuable feature of the book is it effectively conveys what it is like to grow up and be an active Jehovah's Witness. Both the good and bad are related with candor--and much of each exists, as Kelly documents. One point made clear is that many good people exist in the Watchtower movement.

An especially revealing section describes how Kelly's father, once an active opposer, became a Witness, effectively showing why and how someone would become involved in an organization that many people consider a deviant cult. It also shows the problem of using untrained persons, such as Kelly's father, as mental health diagnosticians and therapists, a role forced on them as elders. A point that came through in almost every chapter was the Watchtower teaching that the end of this world and the promise of the new was upon us, and we should live like Armageddon will be here tomorrow or sooner. This is the history of every Witness who lived in the 1950s and 1960s.

This story is told with insightful understanding, even compassion, not bitterness as is common among people who were reared as Witnesses. As an ex-Witness, I could relate to Mama's Club as Kelly's experience parallels mine. I too endured the conflicts and tragic effects at school and home over the restrictive treatment of holidays, conflicts that are unnecessary and reminiscent of the prohibitions in the Torah, such as prohibiting cutting fingernails on the Sabbath unless the torn nail is bleeding.

A recent Pew survey of 35,000 Americans found Jehovah's Witnesses "had the lowest retention rate of any religious tradition" in America, lower then Catholics, Jews, and all other religions. Kelly's excellent book helps readers understand why this religion loses so many members, and, on the other hand, what attracts people to it and why they stay in spite of the problems in the organization.

Jerry Bergman, Ph.D., MSBS, L.P.C.C.

6 of 7 found the following review helpful:

5Growing Up In Mama's Club  Mar 29, 2008
By Craig Bieber "Author, Saylor's Triangle and The Permanent Plan"
Several things impressed me about this book, but two things stood out. The courage Richard Kelly demonstrates as he takes us inside the smothering world he lived in as he grew from being an impressionable young child to becoming an independent young adult is remarkable. He gives us a no-holds-barred look at a family life choice that few of us know about or understand. With mesmorizing words that are born from his need to heal after a family trajedy, he weaves a true story that is filled with wonderful descriptions of the people and the times he lived through...and escaped from. This book is a great read, and a great education!

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