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The Measure of a Man

"...there is no other court in the land where the penalty for perjury does not exist - you can lie your ass off and not only NOT be punished for it, but actually be rewarded for it. There is no other court where you are presumed guilty until proven innocent. And for non-custodial parents...especially fathers...going through a divorce...and the never-ending litany of custody issues and all the rest that goes with it...it can feel like eternal damnation." Thanks to false accusations of domestic violence made by his ex-wife, the life of Alan Karmin - and that of everyone else around him - was turned completely upside down. It did not matter that Karmin did absolutely nothing wrong and that his ex-wife was lying. The mere fact that she made the claim was damage enough. Most people are under the misconception that you are INNOCENT until PROVEN GUILTY. Well that is just not the case when it comes to domestic violence. Murderers and drug dealers are given more rights. During the whole ordeal, Karmin was verbally abused and threatened by a judge, verbally and physically accosted by police officers, criticized by DYFS officials, shown the door by school officials and even turned away by some life-long friends.

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Product Details:
Author: Alan Karmin
Paperback: 210 pages
Publisher: BookSurge Publishing
Publication Date: January 31, 2006
Language: English
ISBN: 1419624091
Package Length: 8.0 inches
Package Width: 5.25 inches
Package Height: 0.48 inches
Package Weight: 0.67 pounds
Average Customer Rating: based on 8 reviews
 
 

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Average Customer Review:4.5 ( 8 customer reviews )
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9 of 10 found the following review helpful:

5The REAL TRUTH  Aug 30, 2006
By NOBODY KNOWS THE TRUTH BETTER THAN ME
I am the son of the author. I lived through the horrific mess that my mother put us all through. Although some accounts of personal details could be somewhat embarrassing to me, my father was completely accurate in every detail. I believe he did a great job in telling our story and his added touchs of heartwarming stories and humor made it not only bearable to read about my own unpleasant experiences...but also made for an interesting and enjoyable read.

8 of 9 found the following review helpful:

5If any life deserves an autobiography, this one does!  Mar 21, 2006
By Michael Rosenthal
This book details the struggles of an ordinary guy, who encounters extraordinary life experiences. He details how our justice system sometimes dispenses anything but justice. It is the story of how one lying, scheming ex-wife, along with a blindly sympathetic judge, can ruin one's life, both emotionally and financially. It is a powerful story and I highly recommend it.

4 of 4 found the following review helpful:

5A true memoir of the terrifying nightmare of trusting in a family-court judge to dispense justice instead of perverting it.  Sep 05, 2008
By Barbara Johnson "Barbara C. Johnson"
After I offered to read and review The Measure of a Man in exchange for a free copy from the author, Alan Karmin, I expected to be bored by it.

As a lawyer known for her stance on false allegations, I have been inundated with emails and phone calls from fathers who had fought or were fighting for their children in the halls of our so-called justice system. All the stories were similar: no matter what evidence Dad had, no matter what supporting witnesses he had, no matter what was fair, no matter how revengeful or out of control or just plain vindictive the mother of their children was, no matter how often Dad proved that she lied to the police, no matter how often she lied to the court, he lost. Mom got sole physical and, often, sole legal custody.

I assumed Karmin's story would be more of the same, for those stories accurately described the inevitable course of a domestic relations action in our neo-feminist society.

Much to my surprise, the book was a page-turner. I read it in two nonstop sessions, interrupted only for Day 3 of the Republican National Convention. I was determined to hear Alaskan Governor Sarah Palin's speech. After listening to the Democratic female pundits on the Larry King Show critiquing Palin's speech, I shut the TV off and began the second session. Although exhausted, I continued reading until I finished it at 5:15 a.m.

The book conveyed Karmin's emotion, thought, development, and action. It was like the Tom Mix serial "Miracle Rider" I used to see as a child for 10 cents at the Magnet theatre. Each Saturday, I learned that neither Tom Mix nor Tony his "wonder horse" was killed when they galloped off the top of the cliff to avoid being trampled by a stampede of buffalo or when they rode through a burning forest. At the top of each chapter, Tom Mix and his faithful horse appeared with renewed energy. A classic formula for novel-writing.

Karmin has talent. He knows how to "show and tell." I am surprised a mainstream publisher did not pick up his book for publication. Maybe he never tried to interest a mainstream publisher in his book. I don't know, but what we have here is a true memoir of the terrifying nightmare of trusting in a family-court judge to dispense justice instead of perverting it.

A five star read.

6 of 7 found the following review helpful:

5Fascinating story of one man's unwavering determination and spirit.  Mar 22, 2006
By Anne Senet
Alan Karmin tells his story with wit and wisdom. We follow Karmin's trials and tribulations through the family court system as he fights to save his children from a vindictive and abusive mother. Flashbacks to earlier parts of Karmin's life add humour and insight into the measure of this man.

7 of 9 found the following review helpful:

5a real life, yet harrowing account  Mar 23, 2006
By Lisa S. Karmin "therapist"
The MEASURE OF A MAN< is just that, how to measure how much one man can endure to protect his dignity and his children from his former wife and a legal system gone bad. What an outrage!!
The story is revealed in very straightfoward language and candor about experiences that no one should have to endure. Karmin also has the ability to infuse humor in the midst of painful content,,, thereby lessening the anguish that one could feel for all the victims.

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