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So inspiring!!! Nov 04, 2009
By Starkid
Cathy Cassani Adams' book, The Self-Aware Parent, has helped me on so many levels. Her knowledge and insight has completely changed my perspective on some of the most challenging parts about being a parent. I feel that this book has helped me grow independently and as a result I'm more present for my kids. I would recommend her book to anyone, whether they have children or not!
Parenting 101 Dec 22, 2011
By Story Circle Book Reviews
I wish this book had been around when I was a young parent--back in the day! When I'm with friends my age, we talk about how we wish we could have been happier, more aware, and more present when our children were younger. The Self-Aware Parent can help parents of any age learn how.
The essays in this book are Adams' personal experiences written over the course of six years--and she wants to share them with others. They focus on self-care, shifting attention to what is working, respecting a child's individuality, practicing self-awareness, and being a role model.
Here are some highlights:
* Parenting is the first and most important task on the list, yet it's not something that you can actually complete. It's a lifelong commitment that requires you to work through challenges and be aware of what you bring to the relationship you create with your children.
* You are expected to teach your children so many things that it's easy to forget that they are here to teach you as well, if you're willing to observe and listen. Their set point is joy and if you pay attention, they can help you return to that state of mind.
* Taking personal responsibility for your role in the parent-child relationship can be difficult because it's much easier to focus on your children's imperfections. Remember "discipline" comes from the word "disciple," which means "to teach." You must consistently discover and uncover the possibilities in your children and share your interests with them. Part of your job as a parent is to notice your children's skills and potential. If you don't, who will?
* Children need to feel accepted for who they are, not just for what they do or how they look. Instead of focusing on who you want them to be, let them tell you who they are--your children are not an extension of you. Don't put your hopes and dreams on your children, you must allow them to find their own. They need to be held and kept safe, but they also need freedom to become who they are meant to be. It's a delicate balance and it is the definition of unconditional love.
* If you constantly put your attention on things that bother you, you're going to see more things that bother you. If you begin to focus your attention on strengths and cherish the moments, you will have more moments to cherish.
I personally found something on every page that made me want to go back and start over with my children. I'll just have to use this new found knowledge on my grandchildren.
by Doris Anne Roop-Benner
for Story Circle Book Reviews
reviewing books by, for, and about women
Great! Aug 18, 2011
By BookGirl
"BookGirl"
I received this book at our baby shower and loved it. It's a super short read which is nice but as I was nearing the end I kept thinking how I wish it were longer and how I'd love to hear more of what the author has to say. The next day I found out she has another book coming out this week..so thrilled!
I really believe this book should be read by both parents, from expecting to seasoned. The lessons you'll learn can easily be applied to all of your relationships, not just those with your children. It's all about staying in the present moment, taking life in, being patient, listening, being good to yourself, being still and letting your kids thrive by trusting who they are right now and letting go of who you think they should be.
I think this book makes a great companion to "a short course in kindness", another one of my favorites.
I'm really looking forward to reading her next book!
Fresh and creative lessons for growing with your children. Jun 21, 2011
By Carol Lawrence
"Authors, social media, bloggers, spiritual life coaches."
The Self Aware Parent is full of remarkable insights on how to help your children work through their emotions while including reminders how by staying present in your parenting moments you will able to savor the experiences. The Self Aware Parent is a powerful reminder how you as parents can play a powerful role in helping your children find the joy in learning so they are motivated to find their passions and become life long learners and creators.
~ Carol Lawrence and Stacy Toten
Intentional Conscious Parenting
BUY THIS BOOK! Dec 19, 2009
By Amy E. Keck
"Amy Keck"
I can't wait to recommend this book to my sisters and friends! It's honest, relevant, funny and touching. With a daughter under 2 yrs, I found myself relating to certain chapters and easily absorbing life lessons for future experiences of other chapters. I enjoyed it from beginning to end!
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